James’ Guiding Star

Educating and supporting families to navigate trauma, neurodiversity (ADHD, Autism, learning needs). emotional regulation, challenging behaviour and parental separation/ dispute.

Evidence-based psychology, practical tools, and compassionate support through workshops and 1:1 coaching. All designed to help you understand behaviour, reduce overwhelm, and build regulation in your family.

You’re Not Failing: You’re Navigating Complexity

Parenting a child who is neurodiverse, has experienced trauma or presents with challenging behaviour can feel relentless.

You might be:

  • Managing meltdowns that seem to come from nowhere

  • Feeling judged by others who don’t understand

  • Exhausted from always fighting the systems

  • Wondering if you’re “doing it right”

You care deeply.

And that matters!

But caring isn’t the same as having the right support.

That’s where I come in.

My Approach

  • A woman and a young boy sharing a kiss outdoors on a grassy field with trees in the background.

    Regulation First

    Behaviour makes sense when we understand the nervous system and what causes it.

  • Multiple hands with sandy or dusty skin pressed together in a gesture of unity or teamwork.

    Connection Over Control

    Children need to feel safe before they can feel calm. Always connect with them first.

  • A heart shape drawn in the sand on a beach with the ocean and rocks in the background.

    Compassion For Parents

    You cannot co-regulate if you are running on empty. This is hard but you are doing great!

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The first FREE guide is now available:

Why Change Feels So Big (And What To Do When Your Child Can't Cope)